不说自己几乎都忘了，我还是个跆拳道黑带二段，呵呵，feels like borrowing someone else's resume when i wrote this, no ownership towards these words, none whatsoever.
话说，当年一开始学跆拳道的时候，我老爸是十分反对的。见过我的人都知道我boyish，当时可能是怕我会“无药可救”的往tomboy持续发展，我老爸就坚持说“ze ta i da me da”，甚至说他觉得我学了会拿来打我弟弟。Really don't know what makes him said that, 听后只有无奈，虽然很早就知道他这辈子都不会了解我是怎样的一个人，但当时还是忍不住心酸了一下。我不是个好人，到我还有同情心和怜悯之心，且别说打人，要知道我到现在还为了没救起一对小狗而内疚得跟什么似的....跑题了，anyway...
当下我想到了Paulo Coelho's The Alchemist (Alan Clarke 译本）里头说过的一段话:
"When someone sees the same people everyday, as had happened with him (the boy) in the seminary, they wind up becoming a part of that person's life. And then they want the person to change, if someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should live their lives, but none about his or her own."